– The key to living out healthy sexuality is context. What does your life look like as a whole? That question will determine your success no matter how good your intentions are. Is sexual desire just another substance for addiction, looked toward in order to fill an emptyness, or do you have a full, well-rounded life, so that you are not leaning on the next relationship, or on porn and masturbation?
– Physical proficiency at sex is a practiced skill. Accordingly, abstinence before marriage is not something you do for the sake of physical performance, but for the spiritual substance.
– Sex is less about the act itself, and more about who it’s with. The moment will pass, but the relationship will remain.