“Based on the gift they have recieved, everyone should use it to serve others, as good managers of the varied grace of God.”
-1 Peter 4:10
Two things I want to emphasize here: “based on the gift they have recieved”, and, “the varied grace of God”. If you don’t fit in, maybe it’s because God has optimized you to execute a very unique task. I would say that the grace of God is far more varied than the routine constructs that it is pressured to operate in.